The only choice there is

Fear holds near
Love holds dear

Love stays near,
but not out of fear

Love stays, because it expands
changes form, inspires, never commands

Fear clings on, and always commands
huddles down, punishes, and reprimands

The one lets you free like a butterfly
from the other, flee! - at least try...

But no, don't try - choose!
And the choice is this: Love, or lose?

But you never really lose in this game
because at the end, the question remains the same
"Want to play again? And again? And again?"